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GQ's guide to the best male masturbators. Our pick of the best male masturbators on the market, including handheld strokers, virtual reality penis sleeves and vibrating blowjob toys.
The best sex toys for men get a lot of stick and for no good reason, in our opinion. Men need to level up their game in the bedroom, and if that means improving their solo tug sessions or introducing something to spice up your fun with a partner, there shouldn't be any sort of taboo placed on enhancing the pleasure. Male masturbators are lightyears ahead of anything your plain old right hand can accomplish, so if you're looking to expand your sexual horizons then allow us to walk you through the best way to do it.
Unsurprisingly, the sex toy world has been supercharged with tech to provide the sort of technologically advanced experiences Tony Stark could achieve if he levelled his head at men's sexual wellbeing rather than halting Thanos. From real-life coaching to help you last longer to VR tracking to match the movement of your favourite videos, there's a proverbial ocean of motions for you to explore.
And it's not just you that can get the fun out of these true-to-live pleasure toys. Getting stuck into exploring your body with a partner by handing over control and talking about what gets your boat rocking can be the only true way to reignite a lost spark or fan the flames of an already flourishing relationship. To help you find the glove that fits, keep scrolling for everything you need to know about sex toys for men including how to use them and the best male masturbators to buy now.
A best-seller of luxury sex toy label Lelo, the F1S V2 is as customisable as masturbators get, while also offering post-use analytics via its app to improve your IRL encounters. Slip it on, turn up the vibrations and then receive coaching guidance to help improve performance for when the real thing happens.
When it comes to manual masturbators, it's all about the texture. The ribbed inner canal of this Tracey Cox toy, paired with convenient hand holds for easy stroking, makes this one a joy to use.
Blowmotion Power Heat Warming Masturbator
Some masturbators mimic penetrative sex (front or back), but Blowmotion's oral simulator is a market leader for good reason, heating up to 42°C for an authentic, lifelike feel.
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Male masturbators are any type of sex toy that enhances hand-to-penis masturbation. Most aim to recreate sensations provided by a human orifice such as oral or penetrative sex, but there are plenty of strokers on the market that simply feel good. “A male masturbator is a sex toy designed to simulate sexual intercourse, enhance solo sexual experiences for men, and can be great for couple play as well,” says Valerie Figueroa, Project Manager for Fleshlight.
Masturbators tend to come in a canal or sleeve-like design and benefits include increased sensation, help with ejaculation control and best of all, bigger and better orgasms. Win-win.
How male masturbators work depends on the individual product, but for the most part, you slip your penis inside and enjoy the sensation until you climax. There are two main types of masturbators: a manual one where the strength of your arm determines your experience, or an automatic stroker, where a built-in motor can pump the stimulating sleeve up and down your shaft for a hands-free sensory overload. Both will deliver the same outcome but more advanced models come with app controls to help you set the pace.
“For a sensation that is more similar to penetrative sex, then a manual masturbator is more likely to offer you that and you can also use them with different attachments so they can be used hands-free," explains sex and relationship psychotherapist Kate Moyle, a sex toy expert for luxury brand Lelo. "A male vibrator with different vibration modes will offer you new sensations that are more difficult to achieve without a sex toy,” she adds.
Confusingly, masturbation eggs are not in fact egg-shaped. The name refers to the shape of the case, first created by Japanese sex toy giant TENGA. It’s what’s inside that counts, and this pocket-friendly sex toy contains a masturbation sleeve that’s capable of delivering a world of pleasure.
“An egg is made of a very stretchy material which is worn over the penis with lube applied on the inside,” explains Moyle. “The shape is a bit like that of a condom, but they're much thicker and stretchier in texture.”
Masturbation eggs can create different sensations for hand-to-penis stimulation, solo play and even partnered foreplay. “They’re also ideal for travel and convenience as they’re discreet and take up very little room,” adds Moyle.
Let's be honest, most men are looking for ways to help them last longer in bed. And while this might previously have been a bit of a challenge when you've only got your hand as a training partner, the world of sex toys can make practice a whole lot easier. For instance, some of the more advanced models have features that can track your performance over many tug sessions, running set programmes with intermittent speed changes or pressure applied to give you plenty of experience ahead of the real thing.
This functionality can also help with edging, which involves pleasuring yourself for gradually increasing periods of time, stopping just before the point of orgasm. Developing this type of climax control during solo play with a male masturbator can help you learn to maintain sexual arousal for extended periods of time. This technique can then be applied to partnered sex, enabling you to last longer in bed.
If you’re single and crave the feel of human touch or simply get turned on by the idea of lifelike sex toys, you might be wondering how realistic male masturbators stack up. In reality, male masturbators offer incredible sensations – but partnered sex is always going to be a wholly unique experience. So, the trick is to simply enjoy each moment.
“Our products are designed to simulate the sensations of sexual intercourse, but they cannot replicate the emotional and interpersonal aspects of a real sexual encounter,” explains Figueroa. “However, they can offer unique textures, tightness, and stimulation that may differ from human anatomy, providing an exhilarating experience.”
Moyles agrees that you should use sex toys to augment but not replace your playtime with a partner. “It's not necessarily about comparing it to 'the real thing', more about changing and mixing up your solo play and pleasure,” she says.
However, “many male masturbators can create a similar physical sensation to penetrative sex with a partner,” adds Moyle. “Being made of silicone, you can use lubricant and some even warm up to simulate body temperature.”
Keep it clean: Always wash your hands and ensure that the toy is clean too, says Figueroa. “After use, clean your toys thoroughly to maintain hygiene and prolong their lifespan.”
Lube up: You can never use too much lube. “Apply a water-based lubricant to the opening and inner canal of the masturbator to enhance comfort and reduce friction.”
Warm it up: Some male masturbation sleeves can be warmed up for extra authenticity. “We recommend putting the sleeve in warm water for a more realistic experience,” suggests Figueroa.
Play around: Not sure what works for you? “Experiment with different grips, strokes, and speeds to find what feels most pleasurable to you,” adds Figueroa. “Take your time and build up arousal gradually to intensify the experience. Everyone's preferences and experiences may vary, so feel free to explore and experiment to find what works best for you.”
Some people have a specific type of partner they look for (be that blonde, brunette, redhead etc), and that same thought process can work for your chosen masturbator. After all, you'll be spending plenty of time getting to know each other.
To get the best experience, think about your budget first and foremost. We'd advise setting aside a decent chunk of change to get a good masturbator, as you really don't want to buy a cheap, scratchy model when you're shoving your Johnson in there. Masturbators and eggs generally cost upwards of £30 for a good quality model, but truly impressive models will be found beyond £80.
Cheaper models won't often come with many technological bells or whistles, whereas masturbators with training or VR compatibility will see the price rocket upwards of £100. These might also include vibrating features, textured openings to mimic the vagina of your favourite adult performer, or the option to match the movements with video motion to immerse yourself in the best movies online.
In most cases, you'll want a toy that has a soft, silicone malleable interior that is reversible so you can easily wash out once you're done.
Aside from the obvious pleasures a masturbator can afford, the most important thing you need to consider is the cleanliness of it. Taking the time to care for your toy will improve the next time you bring it out and will extend the life of it, and no one wants to suffer through an old toy that's not been taken care of.
After every session, make sure you wash out the sleeve or egg with warm soapy water, rinsing it throughly and drying it off before storing it (probably discreetly) away. it's not hard to do but extremely important. Many sex toy brands offer dedicated cleaning sprays and soaps to help make this process better and quicker, so it's worth investing in.
We're always on the hunt for a cheaper way to buy the various products and gadgets that make up our little lives, and sex toys are no exception to the rule. In fact, given that some can cost upwards of £100, it's worth your while to shop around and find a solid deal or wait until one of the few major shopping events to fill out that shoebox beneath your bed with the latest tex tech.
Luckily for you, the Black Friday sales are not so far away, and it's typically a good time to peruse the best sex toy websites to find some hefty discounts that are sure to put a smile on your face. Top brands like Lelo and Lovehoney are
Keen to get stuck into the wide world of sex toys? We thought you might. There are so many different types of toys to assist you in the bedroom, be that as a solo player or with a partner, so if you're looking to upgrade your me-time, look no further.
We go into more detail during our roundups, so check out our full rundown of the best male masturbators, best prostate massagers, best sex toys for men, the best sex toys for women, and the best sex toys for couples to get to grips with it all.
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Not strictly a male masturbator but certainly something you'll want in your stocking this Christmas, Lovehoney's sex toy advent calendars have launched at last, unleashing a new experience for you to explore every day as Santa climbs down the chimney. This particular colab with Womanizer features 24 days (thought 12 days is available if 24 new sex toys is a bit much) geared towards women and those with a vagina. It does have a few surprises for those with a penis too, with several cock rings, butt plugs, lubricants and games to play when the weather gets chilly and you need to cuddle up. The good news? It's heavily discounted right now, with a £275 price drop attached. With that out of the way, onto the best male masturbators. £425 £150. At lovehoney.co.uk
Data fans will appreciate this cutting-edge sex toy from Lelo, that delivers detailed metrics of your self-pleasure sessions straight to your phone. It will even analyse your performance to give you pointers for IRL encounters further down the line. This is especially handy if you’re keen to work on your ejaculation control and learn how to last longer in bed. But while stats can be sexy, the sonic waves powered straight to your shaft provide the real party. So, slip inside the inviting silicone-lined canal and let the double-strength oscillations massage you to orgasm. This all-star male masturbator is so damn good, you may as well delete the dating apps so you can focus purely on me-time. £199 £139. At lelo.com
This male masturbator might look like a bowling pin, but you won't need to rely on charm to strike lucky with Blowmotion's Power Heat vibrator for men. Designed to mimic the feel of authentic oral sex, the entire six-inch canal warms up to a pleasing 42C. Meanwhile, eight vibration and 12 intensity settings can be tweaked to your liking, making for a luxurious self-love session that doubles up as an excellent climax control training unit if you need to set the pace. £89. At amazon.co.uk
Blowjob fans take note: if you’re currently single and seriously missing fellatio, this mains-powered male masturbator from Blowmotion will blow your mind. Simply slip through the inviting lips into the five-inch silicone canal and let the rotating nubs and beads massage you to orgasm. For a seriously authentic feeling, don’t forget to add plenty of lube. Enjoy. £79. At lovehoney.co.uk
It's just like your hand, but better. The Handy 1.1 is one of your best bets for levelling up your solo tug sessions from the so-so to the sublime, thanks to its unique TrueGrip system that automatically adjusts the interior to offer a tight squeeze on your member, no matter the size or girth. There's plenty of customisation, with up to ten strokes a second for the hardcore among you, and video synchronisation and VR compatibility, so you can join in on your favourite porn in the truest sense. £239. At lovehoney.co.uk
Much like a high-end speaker, you can tune the settings of this bespoke male masturbator to your exact liking via its connected app, from slow and sensual to rigorous rub. Unlike most other vibrating masturbators of this flexi-shape, the Lovense Gush also comes with an optional band to increase the tightness for a firmer grip. Just how we like it. £102. At amazon.co.uk
Much like Blowmotion's oral simulator, this innovative male masturbator prides itself on being “real feel”. Thanks to a stretchy inner canal with ribs and nodules that oscillate in eight different patterns and seven intensity levels (engage turbo mode) it provides an authentic deep-throat sensation. Better yet, it comes with a smartphone slot too, so you can watch your favourite visual stimuli at the same time. Genius. £79 £55. At lovehoney.co.uk
Despite its selfie stick appearance, this massage wand style male masturbator is more of a self-love stick. Essentially acting as a mic stand for your member, insert your penis into the silicone loop with your hand around the shaft and this stroker will apply up to four patterns at three speeds. Best used with a water-based lube, obvs. £70. At lovehoney.co.uk
The Swiss Army knife of sex toys for men, do not be alarmed by how this innovative sex toy appears. It might look like an animatronic insect, but this German-made male masturbator comes with six speeds and six intensity settings for your sexual pleasure. Hold it over or under the head of the penis, along the shaft or just about anywhere you find it gives you good vibrations. Alternatively, it adds an extra sensation to oral sex when pressed gently against the base of the penis. Bugs have never been so sexy. From £99. At lovehoney.co.uk & amazon.co.uk
This non-vibrating male masturbation sleeve from Japanese sex toy giants Tenga sounds simple enough, but do not be fooled. The Aero employs “aero dial” technology for an edging experience like no other. Ease yourself into the sleeve and let the three-dimensional textures massage your shaft. And when you want to go harder and faster, simply twist the dial to experiment with the intensity settings. Repeat frequently, being sure to stop just before the point of climax, and you’ll soon last longer in bed, too. Bingo! £70. At bondara.co.uk & amazon.co.uk
A huge amount of R&D has gone into the AutoBlow AI to make it one of the best-sucking replicators around, so long as you're A-OK with the weird-looking lips setup. Is it uncanny to look at? Definitely, yep. But with ten programmed settings to match every kind of blowjob, as you can imagine, this ribbed, textured machine will do all the work for you, with an enhanced grip over its predecessor. £299. At lovehoney.co.uk
The latest release from sex toy innovators Arcwave just dropped and we are here for it. The Voy launched alongside the brand's very own masturbation advice hotline for men (+44 800 102 6796) in a bid to get chaps talking about self-love in an open, positive and fun way. Unsurprisingly, the Arcwave Voy is an outstanding male masturbator that will get everyone talking. Calling on more than just the to-and-fro of other manual strokers, it works by specifically targeting the Merkel-Ranvier receptors in the penis' skin, which respond particularly well to the adjustable tightness of the camera-lens-like device to deliver the ultimate climax. £79. At arcwave.com
Texture is king when it comes to male masturbators and this Tracey Cox stroker has it in droves. Ribbed to climax-inducing perfection in its tight squeeze of a central tube, it comes complete with hand-holds, which make it an easy extension of a tool you’re likely very well acquainted with. Better yet it’s open-ended, so it accommodates all sizes. Enjoy. £19.99. At lovehoney.co.uk
Rather than set you up for bank robberies or praise from the capital-F fashion kids, this balaclava-like male vibrator will target sensitive nerve endings in the head of the penis at four different intensities, thanks to an insertable egg. And, better still, if used with a partner, the egg vibrator can be removed and used to pleasure both parties. £25. At lovehoney.co.uk
Male masturbators claiming to be the most powerful are the sex toy equivalent of London pubs claiming to be the first. That said, at 230 strokes per minute, the Kilroo Keon is not messing about. But there's much more to this device than sheer oomph. The Kilroo Keon can sync up to 2D and virtual reality adult videos, for one, while also being able to pair to partner's devices via FeelTechnology anywhere in the world – so it's ideal for long-distance relationships too. £250. At bondara.co.uk
Not strictly a masturbator, the Nexus Simul8 can do a lot of the hard work to pleasure your body while you're tugging and might open up a few more opportunities to explore new sex toys because it's a two-in-one. It's a static prostate massager that also has two cock rings that loop around the perineum and restrict blood flow for a diamond-hard session when you really need it. £46. At amazon.co.uk
A masturbator for men that won't take up all the space in your man bag, this pocket-sized male vibrator packs a punch with 20 different functions. Simply pop it in your palm ahead of a tug and this open-ended device will add a whole new dimension of pleasure to the manual alternative. £30. At lovehoney.co.uk, amazon.co.uk & boots.com
This all-singing, all-dancing masturbator is the latest innovation in male sex toys. Formulated by the brains behind leading premium sex toy brands for her, We-Vibe and Womanizer, it harnesses “Pleasure Air” technology to directly target the most sensitive nerves in the penis, thus delivering a more intense and powerful orgasm. Can I get an amen? £169. At arcwave.com, lovehoney.co.uk & amazon.co.uk
A slightly more menacing piece of apparatus than your standard stroker, Hot Octopuss’ Jett sleeve effectively turns your todger into a Boeing 737. Thanks to a combination of innovative bass and treble tech, it makes for a ride that’s anything but turbulent, directly targeting the most sensitive part of your penis – the head – with rumbling vibrations with 10 patterns and six different intensities. This is your pilot speaking: please take your seat for landing. £59. At lovehoney.co.uk & amazon.co.uk
Simulating both vaginal and anal pleasure care of two realistic-feeling entry passages, Thrust Pro's Gigi is an extremely versatile male masturbation stroker when it comes to solo play. Offering more than just multiple ends (or a flip hole), you can even adjust the suction levels for a tighter squeeze for those after an anal toy simulator. £30. At lovehoney.co.uk
TENGA’s premium line of disposable male masturbators might be single use, but they will still bring a touch of luxury to your solo sesh. Made from thicker materials than the brand’s standard toys and with two inner textures to choose from (one that's tight and squeezing and another that's intricately ribbed) it offers a step above the famous egg sleeve for the ultimate regal self-love experience. £18. At tenga.co.uk
No, it's not the latest VR-capable gaming console, but this male masturbator sure runs like it. Operating at 180 suction impulses per minute, it has the power to replicate blowjobs and stroking with unparalleled stamina. It's variable, with 10 vibration modes and six speed levels to choose from, plus eight fully automatic modes can be implemented in unpredictable patterns to give your pleasure sessions a sense of authenticity. £375. At lovehoney.co.uk
It might look like a tube of tennis balls from a distance, but as with all TENGA products, there's more than meets the eye here. Taking its name from the internal coil that twists as you insert, the Spinner provides a sensation that can't be replicated by hand actions. There are three versions with varying diameter, firmness and simulation, the Tetra, Hexa and slightly firmer, slightly narrower Shell (pictured). £24. At amazon.co.uk
Rose Petal Vibrator “Fleshlight” and “discreet” rarely feature in the same sentence, and you'll find many an iteration mimicking more lifelike, flesh-toned genitalia. This best-seller lets you leave that to the imagination, however, in an all-black design that encases a textural opening and bumpy internal canal. The possibilities are endless with this blank canvas of a manual masturbator – one tip being to leave it in warm water before use for a sensation that's closer to penetrative sex. £49. At lovehoney.co.uk